Still trying....

[DonH]

Here is my thread (If I actually was able to paste it)web page

I don't want to hijack someone else's thread here and I have to say right off that usually I am very good a debating and expressing but since my own sitch I am way off my game. In any event, however, the purpose of the book and this web site in very clear words is to save your marriage. I mean it's in the name after all - DIVORCE BUSTING So that is the mission statement of sorts. It sounds like both of you have the ability to bust a divorce and meet the mission of the host of this board. I can respect and even probably understand how you have gotten to where you are but you are then no longer following the mission in favor of a different mission that of getting a life regardless of your M. Does that make sense? You are no longer divorce busting because if you were you'd bust the divorce. If you kept on working and went back to the book you'd find your compas to put back that loving feeling. I mean all of the things that Michelle writes and that we'd all love to tell our S now needs to be told to us. Don't give up. It can be fixed. You can find your way back. The in love feelings will return - on and on.

By the way if my link didn't work searching on "Classic WAW" might find it for you.