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He had said something to the effect of, "It's plain and simple: feed him, love him, give him sex. If you do that, everything else will be ok."




LOL!!!! Well I feed my H, love my husband and I give him a whole lot of sex so WTH is the problem????

And if your step dad does turn out to have THE magic wand I'd appreciate a visit. I'll even put him up and feed him - and he's more than welcome to bring your mom as well.

No advice from me as you seem to be doing things better than most of us could. I'm a mess at the moment anyway....but if you need someone to hit the pubs with just gimme a call.

Take care JV.

Cheers, Scottisheart

P.S. OK, one thing....I'm with your sister - don't involve anyone else if you can help it.