Ok. We've come to an agreement on the issue of visitation.
H will have the boys every other weekend and every Tuesday. On his weekends, he will pick the boys up Thursday evening giving him 3-day weekends with them. H burst into tears thanking me.
He seems to think I doubt his love for them. I NEVER have, and I've told him this.......Maybe he feels guilty about his numerous statements in regards to not ever wanting to have had children with me.....????.....I don't know. Just guessing there.
I hope he understands that when we talked of "the boys" that also included the baby going along on his days with them -- not just S9 and S5. I may have to clarify that with H just to be sure.
JV
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination."
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown