ThatGuy, Wow, and kudos to you!!! I am really impressed by your 'pool playing abilities'. Did this interaction with these girls make you feel good, I was wondering? It brought something out that Ithought I would share. I have spent the last 15 years of my life either married and monogomous, or single and celibate. I have only been with 2 men in 15 years. I know all of this divorce stuff sucks, but I remember one thing I considered when I got married, and that was that I never would be able to kiss anyone else or ml to anyone else for as long as I was with my husband. That was the rule and an acceptable part of being married. However, there have been times in my married life where I have thought about some other person, i.e., I wonder what it would be like to kiss that person, etc. I would NEVER do it, I never did it and I don't regret not, but still the thought is there. And here I am today, and if my husband doesnt come back to me, which I hope of course that he does, but if he doesn't, then I will have that opportunity. And as long as I don't remarry or commit again to a monogomous relationship in whatever form, well then I get to kiss whoever I please and won't be breaking any rules.
