A few post back I had figured out all the forensics that proved W was still as hot and heavy with OM as ever before. Remember the frosty a.m. and dirt covered van? Glad I just DBed and acted as if. I thought for sure that W has been DBing me and was acting as if she thought I was a good friend while she and OM...you know.
Since then I've heard D9 giving W a hard time about all the dirt on the van. D9 probably thinks W got the dirt from driving to OM's place. (D9 is just like me.) Without hesitation W pointed out that she drives out in the country to one of her house cleaning jobs. It does check out with Wednesday's schedule.
Today W and I were chatting about meaningless b.s. when we were commenting on how lots of people in our neighborhood don't park in their garages due to too much junk in them. W pointed out that her garage is empty but she usually parks on the drive b/c her garage door is too difficult to open. No automatic opener. That's why she had frost on her van in the morning. In fact she said she had some ice on her van that one frosty morning b/c her u.g. sprinkers ran that morning. No sprinklers at OM's place.
All of this info came without a single probing snooping question from me. I don't think she was trying to explain away anything that I/we thought was suspicious. So we all know what happens when we a$$ume.
Some other interesting tidbits to journal...
W and I worked all Saturday afternoon with D9 on her prairie diorama. Everyone got along swimmingly. W gave me a powerful hug when she left. All that house cleaning has really improved her upper body strength.
Sunday W was in a silly mood and made a few jokes toward me the had some sexual innuendo in them. This after I had made some similar jokes the previous day. It has been years since either of us has done that.
Sunday evening the four of us went out to eat (sit down non-fast food restaurant). It was pleasant cheerful and fun. When the check came...W insisted she was buying. At first I said I would cover it but my little DB voice inside said to relinquish control and let her pay for supper. It was weird at first but nice.
I got another nearly as powerful hug Sunday night when she left again.
I was encouraged by W's actions over the weekend but at the same time I felt depressed when she'd leave. Trying to stay neutral about the whole weekend. No expectations. Need to find some new GAL activities b/c the kid's soccer ends this weekend. No more reasons for W to hang in town on weekends anymore.
Oh, and the Huskers squeeked another one out again. That helped my PMA a little too. D9 has desided that she likes Zac Taylor - "He's so cute." Oh boy.
