But he did say that he works hard all day (we both have long stressful work days) and doesn't feel like talking about our R when he gets home.

R's are like your teeth...ignore them and they will go away. I'm afraid H senses that to work on the M will require him to take a little emotional inventory on himself. He doesn't really want to do that. Been there.

How have your children reacted?

S6 doesn't know any different. Gets a little fed up with traveling back an forth between mom and dad's homes. D9 is still angry with W. She loves her mom very much but now and then her patience wears thin with W and her anger shows. Sometimes I wish Michele would write a DB book for pre-teens so they can deal with their WA parents.


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