Found a new motivation to talk with W. Part of me wants to go dark (pouting impatient part of me), but talking with someone close is something that W missed in our R and found with OM. Don't know if I mentioned this before (maybe in a previous thread), W uses a cell phone that OM gave her. I think much of the motivation was to prevent me from knowing when and how much they talk to each other. I used to snoop a lot on the cell bill but I stopped that about the time of the S. They didn't believe that I didn't care a rat's a$$ how much they talked anymore so he went ahead and got her the phone. They used to text all the time too and they can do it for free on his phones since it cost extra on ours.
Anyways...it occured to me that the roles have reversed. OM can now see how often W and I talk on the phone. I know from multiple sources that OM was once very sure of the fact that he and W would M eventually. I'm pretty sure that it's got to bug him that W still talks daily to me. Sometimes for more than an hour at a time. Heh heh heh.
Now that I think about it some more...I should call her from my desk phone and use as many of his minutes up as possible. It's completely free when we talk using our cell phones. Damn! Why didn't I think of this sooner.
Just venting a little of my rowdiness folks. I don't think I'm over obsessing on OM again. If I am, well, I'm aware of it and will quickly get back on the right track.