Welcome to the Infidelity boards. I don't know how to tell you quell your anger and resentment. I have mine, but it is somehow in check and I never show it to my W any more. I'm more of a laid back type anyway.
I too have read and re-read MF's stitch (1 Year of DBing) and I am using it as a template for my DBing efforts. I believe MF had the right idea, the only thing you have to hope for is that your W sees the chink in OM's armor before it's too late to turn back.
My OM seems like an upstanding guy (other than he is a homewrecking adulterer) with a good job and is well liked at work. I hope the flaws that W will eventually uncover come fast and are large enough to send my W packing -- before its too late. Hoping the same for you.
