Quote: Only if you want to set yourself up for disappointment.
True. But basically anything I do will set me up for disappointment except submission.
Quote: Just tell her your needs/wants. Needs: to feel loved, to feel a connections. Wants: to ML is the best way for you to meet my needs. If she meets your needs, great. If not, then you work on yourself, get a life, maybe go to MC.
I have often and repeatedly expressed my needs being 'affection, attention, comfort', and she totally understands, validates and recognizes those needs. They are simply not met :\. ML is important, but I would be happy with little LM if in ~any~ form those needs were met in some way. I think sex is primarily a focal point in this. While it is important to me, it's not the godend answer to everything. As I said in another post, the cat fares better than I do in that respect. :\
Quote: By the way, are you from the UK? The reason I ask is because you mention going TO a fish and chips, rather than going FOR fish and chips. And of course the whole fish and chips thing. One of my favorite posters on this board who ended up with a pretty successful story was SuperDave. He hailed from England.
No, I'm from the US. A lot of UK peeps and thus fish and chips places here tho.
