MrsNOP, I know, 'always try to be positive'. I manage most times. I know 'most times' is not good enough, and then there's always this little devil in your head telling you how 'hard you try' and how 'little it seems she tries'. It's the destructive thought process, but not always easy to get yourself out of that.
The mood swings aren't an issue at all. She got on Depakote over 2 years ago (before I met her) as a result of personal problems in the bussiness she ran with a friend (which all ended in big tears) and has been on it ever since. I don't think her doc or she have ever really considered tapering off. Anyway, know 'Leaving Las Vegas' where Cage tells Shue "Whatever you do, you can never, ever ask me not stop drinking". It's very much a nog go area. however, on the up side, she will take me along on her next check up to the phychiatrist which I sure see as a possitive sign.
I suspect the Depakote (or some built-up effect?) may play a role as well. Because she has other side effects as well (trembling hands, tired, etc). but it's hard to see cuase and effect.
