These problems certainly can be found in both sexes. I think men are just less likely to talk about being LD themselves.
Good to hear last night went well. In fact, we did almost the same thing. He had an orgasm and was more than willing to "give" me one but I just didn't want to make it a necessity all the time. (Less pressure).
Sometimes it is nice just to please your partner. I don't want that all the time though. At least for me, there needs to be variety.
I also made the mistake of sharing too much about previous partners and all it did was make him feel bad. Too late now. I have a thread of my own if you would like to read the whole distressing story
