Quote: Well, he didn't have anything to say. He is still not talking to me or coming home until after I am in bed and leaving before I get up. As well as still riding the couch.
Is there anyway you could get up after he gets home at night? Not necessarily to start some mega-relationship discussion, but just to say, "I want to tell you again how incredibly sorry I am that I have hurt you, how much I love you and how much I want to work on making our marriage everything it can be".
Or can you write what you want to say on a letter and leave it propped up on the couch?
Do you have any mutual friends that he might be spending time with or discussing this with?