Shaly, Welcome to the SSN forum.

Sorry you are having trouble but glad you are here and read some books. Please name the books and what you got out of them. Main points will do.

I would like to invite you to start a new thread and kind of post your relationship resume. The more we know (we have heard it all and you can't shock us) the more help you will get.

To post your own thread, go back to the page where all of the Sex Starved Threads are listed and near the top and to the left of the thread field is a symbol with the word "post" Click there. I would do it for you but then my name will apear next to the name/topic of the thread.

How about?
Lots of good people here. Week ends are a little slow sometimes but you could get the ball rolling by starting a thread, topic that is important to you

Lou