I've been here before but it's been a while. I'm the low-desire spouse, and it's given us a lot of hardship, but we are not giving up. I had my doctor take some tests to rule out a thyroid condition, and even stopped taking my birth control pill for a couple of months to see if it might be the culprit, but no luck. Now my doctor has prescribed me the antidepressant Wellbutrin XL - I've been taking it for a couple of days now but nothing's changed yet... I know it can take several weeks for the full effect to kick in, but I would love to know if anyone here has taken this drug, or their partner has, and if it helped any.