Look away while I hide my construct of intellectual superiority behind this curtian .
While it's true that my H doesn't read anything but the sports page and golf books/magazines, I know that he understands and organizes thoughts very well. He can remember very twisted plot lines of movies and the highlights of narratives.
When I begin to talk about my experience, there are actual events, the facts if you will. Then there are the effects of those events. That's where things get complicated, paradoxical even.
I think that HD had it right when he made the comment that my H is intimidated by things that he doesn't know. He feels small and stupid when confronted by something he doesn't know. He doesn't know which tools to use to find out something new. It's not just about not knowing, it's about a willingness to entertain new ideas. H is having difficulty in this area.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
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