Quote: I think my H always was LD and on some level thought that I never would come out of my shell, sexually speaking. I was perfect for him what with my sexual problems. He could focus on how he never got enough sex and never have to confront his issues. Now that my disinterest is no longer there to focus on, other issues that he has used my LD to avoid are coming to light
This is a brilliant insight. You are one sharp cookie!
You have definitely changed the rules of this marriage and it's hard for him to adjust.
