Fell down on the job

[cinemanymph]

Hi all,
Everything was in good working order. ML twice on Friday.

Nothing since. H told me that I was bothering him by crowding him in bed. I thought I was being affectionate. I told him that I would stay on my side until he invited me over to his side, so far he hasn't. Maybe he didn't want birthday sex? I don't know what to do, H is avoiding me and won't let me touch him. I am sooooo confused. I thought we were going gangbusters and both of us were enjoying ourselves immensly.

H golfed on his birthday leaving at 5:30 AM to meet his golf partner at 6. I decided to clean out his workshop for him in lieu of buying a gift. All our holiday decorations, party stuff, and bunch of other things we had no other place to store were in there. I thought if he had a room in the house with just his things, a place where he could go and just putter with whatever struck his fancy would be much better than a golf shirt that he would buy himself anyway. So I got up when he left and got started. The boys and I worked all day and we were proud of the job we did. H was so angry that we didn't go out and buy him something that he didn't speak to me until the next AM when I confronted him about being a jerk. I told him he could sit there and be mad or get two birthdays for the price of one. I cooked him an awesome breakfast, a great lunch and took him out for prime rib, we came home and watched a movie he wanted to see. We took a predinner shower together and nothing. Two months ago H didn't care if I'd had a shower in two days he couldn't get enough, no matter what. Now that I really am enjoying being with him, he doesn't want me. If there was a crying icon I'd put it here. What do you all make of this?