Paul: Your relationship with Ms.Paul is destroying your integrity.
Quote: Integrity comprises the personal inner sense of "wholeness" deriving from honesty and consistent uprightness of character. The etymology of the word relates it to the Latin adjective integer (whole, complete). Evaluators, of course, usually assess integrity from some point of view, such as that of a given ethical tradition or in the context of an ethical relationship.
You need to rebuild, reassert, and be resolved to maintain your integrity.
You, sir, are not a doormat. There are a lot of links to sites which discuss integrity. Try Wikipedia. I thought the Quaker's testimony of integrity was very interesting.
