I went to a Japanese counsellor once, alone. I did relay her suggestions to W. I have not brought up the issue of counselling, but maybe I will now.
No, W has not apologized for her outbursts. She is back to her "normal" self, as if nothing happened. I still feel dazed, though. I moved my stuff back upstairs and we'll see if they are still there tonight.
Lou, It's been two years since the Chapter 11 axe began to descend, and it has been chopping our lives into bits ever since. She seems to have accepted the situation, though she apparently believes the threat of dissolution has passed. I'm not so sure. She has had us go to places saying, "We had better go while the company still exists."