Hi sikan - Congratulations on getting H to sit with you and work out what his needs are, NG runs a mile even at the mere suggestion of an R talk
Do I know what his needs of respect, loving, honesty, selflessness mean to him?
Inquiring minds want to know, what did you conclude were H's needs, and what plans have you made to meet them?
H asked me to tell him when I was feeling this way. He said that if I did this it would be less of an issue for him because then he wouldn't be caught off guard like the last time.
Looks like a perfect opportunity for a 180 - H seems to have some real concerns about your contentment, or anxiety. He seems to be communicating in very Mars terms, just wondering if there are any other specific Martin traits you have seen in him.
Slowly
