Hi Sikan - Just popping in to say hello and marvel at the attitude you are displaying re: ow
Could I please borrow some of it?
"People like OW see H as (she has described him more than once) the amazing one or a real man. To someone like OW, who obviously isn't particularly evolved, I see how that could be the case." This statement totally rang a bell with me re: H's annoying FF. I just posted that she is now planning to go to the same event out of town H & I had planned to go to.
I definitely need to develop the attitude you have for the ow in your sitch! I continue to read your thread and follow your progress with your H. My work is insane this time of year so I'm not posting much but am reading along.
Take Care, SP
PS - Sage (moderator) had lowered the importance of the OW in her previous sitch by listing her as ow in lower case. Guess, I need to do the same with FF = ff!
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
