I'm not planning on moving back in with him until we begin to address the underlying issues in our R. I'm glad for the opportunity to be able to do this via this end of my current lease. My R is way too important for me to be hasty with. H and I will have been separated for 1 year this Dec but technically not since the end of June/ beginning of July. H has been sleeping at my apt. every night for the last 6 or 7 weeks.
I want to be able to address the issues underlying things like OW, although the OW sitch isn't completely resolved so that will need to be dealt with directly on some levels. It's more important for me to see what created an OW sitch and work on those things instead of focusing on details like OW. In fact, I see her in a lot of ways as being just another form of escapism for my H, much like drinking. Unfortunately, OW happens to be well... another W!
Anyway, I would love your feedback on some of the things that I am turning around in my head these days, esp things my H and I discuss regarding our moving back in. I'm hoping things will begin to slow down here at work so that I can actually post some details instead of these brief updates.
Thank you both for your help with my sitch! I will continue to check in on both of your threads. Rotzilla, I think what you and your H are doing through your thread is awesome! Thank you both!
