Hi Sikan! Welcome back. Glad you had a nice weekend despite the cold

You said:
I can't post for very long unfortunately but I do want to mention one point. My landlord needs to know by 9/30 if I plan to renew my lease for another year. H and I have been actively talking about our future for some time. However, there are no dates attached to any of these talks. This weekend I mentioned that I would need to give my landlord notice and asked H if I should just renew for another year. He said not necessarily but could we talk about it later on. (we were eating) I said ok and tabled it for the time being. I'm planning on bringing this up again during one of our Sunday "walk and talks". I'm also going to discuss this with my DB coach next week. I have a little over a month but I wanted to get the ball rolling.

Maybe this lease issue will help to bump your living arrangment into the right direction . I'm glad you have a DB coach to consult. Please let us know what he/she says.

Take Care,
SP

According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."