Hi Sikan - A belated welcome to Piecing, and yes, I can relate to this fear.
Quote: I think my H has ended his friendship with OW and now I'm really scared and insecure. My H is now spending all of the time that he used to with OW with me. It's kind of unnerving.
Tell us why you feel insecure about this... For me, I found that 'my time' became so limited that the things I used to be able to do freely (like posting here ) became tough as he seems to be around all the time. Over time though, we have carved out a little more personal space for each of us. Not as much as we used to have before the affair, but adequate it seems.
) became tough as he seems to be around all the time. Over time though, we have carved out a little more personal space for each of us. Not as much as we used to have before the affair, but adequate it seems. 
Slowly
