Thank you for welcoming me to this thread. I don't have much time to post today because work has been absolutely insane and unfortunately the only time I have access to a computer is at work.
I knew that posting on piecing was the right move. Your question, Rotzilla, of what I am doing to make myself happy is dead-on. Both my H and I are dealing exactly with that right now. It's funny because I'm in Al-Anon and like my experiences with that group, I came to this BB wanting to find help for my H and his problems not mine. Imagine my surprise when I learned that actually it's about me.
I want to be able to post a longer message. I hope that tomorrow is less hectic or maybe this afternoon, if I'm lucky. Thanks for your support!