I have read some of your sitch from Newcomers. The title of the depressed spouse had caught my eye as I have one of those too and he also has a drinking problem although that is great news that your H has stopped as of 12/04.
I look forward to reading/seeing your progress over here and the input from experienced Piecers
Take Care, SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
