Here's the breakdown Me 33 H 34 No kids Married 2 yrs, together 5
H has had chronic depression most of his life. Reached his breaking point this past fall and asked to separate to deal with problems. I agreed to give him space and we have been living in separate apts. since 12/04. Both H and I are committed to making R and M work. Possible EA with OW, co-worker. Recent new developments with that posted on old thread.
H and I had problems with addiction and avoidance. I had problems with alcohol and anorexia and H also is alcoholic. I have been sober for 4 yrs. and H stopped drinking in Dec. in order to appropriately deal with problems.
I would love for some Piecers to take a look at my sitch and give me some feedback. In general, I feel that the outlook is more positive on this thread than on newcomers. Also, H has insisted from the beginning that he wants to make our M work.
