No plans for kids. I was playing devil's advocate. If she was with me for some "less sincere" reason (which I do doubt because I am not wealthy) from the very beginning- but did 1.5 years of intimacy to get something she wanted, then it could happen again if the child was a goal.

And yes, we figured out "cold turkey" on the depressants was not good. It scares me that stuff is so powerful. They must be some long term negative effects to that stuff.