Yes, specifically discussed and no one was under any pressure. I know that just being married does not entirely mean that I deserve intimacy. However, I have been a stand up guy, she gets what she wants most of the time, I adjusted behaviors she did not like. I consult her first on all decisions.
Let's play devils advocate here for a minute. Since our intimacy was great for 1.5 years before marriage...let's just say things turn around soon and we are back on track. How soon would I wait to consider having a child. I mean, we went 1.5 years pre-marriage and all was great. So now, let;s say everthing is good for another 1.5 years and we do have a child. How do I not now that the lack of intimacy will then start all over again.
