Well, it was a 10 day trip to visit her family in another state that turned into longer trip. I am sure she would say that seeing her family would alleviate stress.
Anyway, I do not even fault her for that so much. I'd like to take a trip as well. It's just a slap in the face to be rejected/unwanted all the time, especially when it was specifically agreed to in advance. And then, to say it's my problem, I need counseling and I depend on her for my happiness is the feather in the cap of insults.