Emotional Affairs

[Oh_So_Blue]

Thank you Tessa .... did you suspect the EA? Did you ask, or did he just come out one day and say, "oh, by the way ...".

Mine has completely detached from me emotionally. Completely. Has stopped wearing a ring, talking divorce. Treating me like someone he doesn't even know anymore. Almost resentful. I do believe I'm dealing w/his MLC, but, do suspect OW. He also changed his PW on his cell phone.

Can I ask a personal question? Were the two of you still physically together (intimately) before he told you? How about after? Was he living at home before he told you?

I'm just so completely confused ... I want to sit down with him and have a heart to heart and hope he would tell me the truth (I guess like we all do, huh?).

My H is still at home ... left once on Mother's Day, two weeks and came back home. Left again on 8/1, gone for two days. Is ALWAYS gone on weekends (both days) ... finds every reason under the sun to spend all this free time w/brother on home improvements (I do believe that is where he is 99% of the time). Is this guilt? Or just desire to be away from me? It's like he can't bear being at home. Is always home during the week ... doesn't use the computer. I believe this is something that is happening at work. He is part of a 2-person office, the other co-worker is male. I suspect either a customer, co-worker, or internet play.

Thanks for your thoughts ....