Hiya journey. Your post got me thinking about where I was last year at this time. I had written my W an email with a Yom Kippur theme, asking for her forgiveness, and forgiving her. It backfired, of course. I was reading some of my posts from that time, and part of me feels like I've made no progress at all. We are still fighting the same fights, it seems.

But I'm also hopeful, as I always am at this time of year, (even if I don't go to the synagogue) that it is the beginning of a new year, and who knows what might happen.

Hairdog