I'm betting you have lots of strength there, Globule. You're in a crisis now, but with crisis comes the opportunity for change. You're coming off an emotional and biological high from OW during a very stressful time in your life. Your W's attention is diverted and you are feeling lost. HP is right...your sense of timing sucks, but I do think this happened at the time it did for a reason. Perhaps on some level you anticipated the lack of attention as your W further plunges into motherhood. Perhaps you are unsure of the importance of your role as the father of a baby/toddlers ( this will change so much...I am excited for you).
My advice...keep drinking cups of patience...and count your blessings!
