Thank you for the good wishes, guys. I still have to "walk the walk" so I appreciate everyone's support. I'm trying to focus on the positive stuff and remain vigilant of the negative ( the control issues, addictive behavior, selfishness, etc) as it arises, both within myself and my H. Not sure if we will work ourselves to a truly intimate, passionate marriage, but the stability is really nice.
Annette...nice to see you here...how are things?
Karen...that book sounds interesting... going to look it up on Amazon.
HP...there is a nutrition program at a local college 20 min. from my house. I thought about trying to get it together for January, but now I'm thinking there's no great urgency and it may be better to solidify the changes at home...have a strong base to work from.
Chrissy... I am somewhat food phobic and really don't cook all that much. I am starting off very basic and simple...it's a full time job in and of itself. Veggie lasagna does sound nice if made with whole grain noodles and low salt and not much cheese. H used to undermine some of my previous attempts but is supportive now.
JJ used to say that the answer is in confronting our deepest fears ( the answer to what, I forgot,lol). But confronting fears, am I.
