Hot Damn, IHJ, you and underdog, 'get it'. Now if HP can. Underdog has a lot for her if she can communicate it.
I was thinking about opposites attracting and how it is a good thing, they are the other half, what we are missing and need to work on to improve ourselves to become a complete person. When they want something from us, it is often good for our development. Our resistance is based in our insecurity.
Unfortunately just about the time we get it, or start, its because they are walking/ready to walk from frustration, and its too late, or because they found someone else with that 1 thing they ran out of patience waiting for. Sheesh, if I keep this up Ill talk myself into working on things with x.
Glad to see things are going well for you. How long did it take H to recover?