IHJ- I'm curious to know if you were able to completely "let go" and enjoy the oral considering you stated H has been "queasy" about it in the past. I know for myself, if H atempts for perform something I know he is not comfortable with, I have a much harder time relaxing and enjoying as well. He likes oral, lucky for me, so that is not a problem, but I like when he is more dominating in bed and that's not easy for him. Creates a little tension which I am trying to figure out how to deal with. I'm sure he senses it from me as well. Any suggestions?
