J,
I see a lot of similarities between your H and my own. How did you come to acceptance?

Any words of wisdom for me?

I've pushed and pushed and now, though I now see how futile that was, I just feel like giving up--we seem too incompatible.

Any advice?

P.S. Omg HD, that was hilarious. My personal favorite was the baby oil one. That doctor is probably still laughing over those funnies.