Something like this would work great on a man like you H. But I'm with IHJ on this....this would be perceived as nothing but pressure by my H. It might turn him on initially...but later he'd resent me for it because he'd feel I manipulated the situation.
Personally...I like the idea, it just wouldn't fly too well with him.
Ditto this. My bf would not respond to something like this. He would not see it as fun or "play." It would likely make him mad. Chrissy, remember we're talking about Low Desire men here.