Quote: OM emailed me again last night and that sent me into a whole obsessive state of fantasizing about the "what ifs." DANGER! DANGER! In my case, thinking/fantasizing about OM is NOT ok for me because of the reality that he is out there and reaching out to me.
Have you ever emailed him a reply akin to "Sorry, but I'd prefer if you wouldn't contact me from now on. I'm trying to get my life back together. Don't expect me to explain it. Please try to respect this whish."?
