IHJ,

How sensual of a person are you?
Maybe dabbling a little in your sensuality is what you need right now.

But on the the sexualality got a question. What is the most darring sexual thing you would be willing to do for H that is not the norm.
Meaning would you be willing to cook up a nice little candle lite meal served by you in a little naughty maid custume? Just to blow his mind if this is not your norm.
Just thinking if you brought a little fun into sex that it may take some of the pressure off both of you.

Just a thought