GEL wrote:
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Not to point out the obvious here...but wouldn't you rather shoot for the one day in the morning when you know he's more likely to be "into it" than continue working for the evenings when you know you are going to feel hurt because you feel he views you as an imposition

The way I took this is that you (IHJ) are lamenting that you cannot be spontaneous with you H. I mean, at least with a schedule, you do ML (which is more than I'm doing ), but it would be nice to be able to let your spontaneous side out without getting the vibe that your desire is a bother.

The C that we went to pointed out that the person with LD is pretty much in charge of when ML happens. It's on their timetable, for the most part.