Not to point out the obvious here...but wouldn't you rather shoot for the one day in the morning when you know he's more likely to be "into it" than continue working for the evenings when you know you are going to feel hurt because you feel he views you as an imposition....wouldn't the compromise for a date/time when you know he'll be into it be worth more to you than frequency throughout the week?
IMPO I would prefer to compromise with my H for once a week when "he" feels like it and can be more into it, than 2-3 times a week on a schedule where I feel like he's having to push himself to "perform" because he feels he's expected to...and therefore ends up not being into it as much.
I often notice that many of us (myself included here) say we are willing to compromise when it comes to our SL, date...time...frequency...etc, but we have a tendency to keep striving for what it is that "I" want and occasionally that can appear as pushing or not compromising to meet the LD partner, when they ARE trying and ARE making efforts to meet our needs (I know, I know...not all of our spouses are doing this).
I'm not saying you are doing this...your post just got me to thinking, and this is something I have noticed in myself and in others on here.
