Quote: he says, " I'll be able to get some sleep without you all over me." He said it in a "joking" manner, and I called him on it right away, but the damage was done. In his mind, he's this hard working saint being forced to ML to his needy, selfish wife. I had that ole BB thought: Why would I want to ML to someone who doesn't want me? When we went to sleep, I went to bed first, and I just didn't even want to sleep there. I got up and went to the guest room. He came in, and I explained that when he is ready to hear my wants and work with me at nite, then to let me know; otherwise, I'd sleep here. We ended up ML very passionately.
What caused him to change his mind? Was it your pulling away? Did that scare him or arouse him?
