Re Lil. Then he'll sit up on the side of the bed (while I'm lying naked beside him) and pet and baby-talk the dog. I mean, when he wakes up, clearly he has the impulse to greet and express affection. So the dog and I are both lying there-- and he chooses the dog. (I know others of you have this dog thing. I LIKE that he loves the dog-- I just wish I could get some of that action.) Lil, just change the gender words to female and I would say Bingo! Me too. But every once in a while I get lucky.
I guess there is little pressure from the pets to preform the intimacies. When you want to quit with the cuddly stuff the pets don't get upset. Yes, it feels like I don't count for much sometimes. BB wanted to see the new grand kitten so we went. I played with the grand kids.
