Thanks, mqo, for the info... I have to say that my feeling all along is that 90 percent of my H's LD-ness is due to " state of mind" factors rather than state of body, and it's pretty hard not to personalize some of it because it is, well, personal. While I am proud of the efforts H and I are both making to open up the channels of connection, there's something sad about the whole thing too...we have lost so much ground from the early days. But I am not dwelling there and am moving forward with the show.
