We Have decided to schedule 2 nites of the week to ML...if anything more happens spontaneously, then all the better. If it doesn't, then I can look forward to two nites of togetherness. H doesn't feel pressured by this schedule...he knows he's up for it. He also thinks it's healthy to have some space to build up to it and to miss it.
H went for the vasectomy consult yesterday and is planning to do it in early Sept. He is feeling waaaay anxious about it ...and I don't blame him. Apparently I have to sign a consent form as well. It's a strange feeling as a woman to close the door to your child bearing yrs...I feel I am never quite ready for all these life changes.
It's a quiet time right now here, enjoying the end of summer. I am not going back to my hospital work this yr...thinking of making a change...maybe becoming a marital therapist!
