Hi Zilla - I am watching and reading your thread and it is very helpful to me. I wish I had some input on joint C with H but my H at the time of the bomb, etc. did not want anything to do with C. He figured at that time I was the cause of all his problems so why would he need to go to C. Anyway, I went to individual C for 2 years and it helped me a great deal. Is Zuki open to joint C? If not, have you ever tried individual C?
I hope you two have a relaxing and peaceful weekend together
Take Care, SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
