Thanks for this hijack! it is the same place I am feeling, H is comfortable in how he has reassigned our places in our R and M, it is just what he stated over a year ago what he wanted, friends and business partners, but we don't act married. I've been feeling like I need to do some big shake up to get out of this comfortable rut we are in. This thread is very helpful for me. Thanks!
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