Hi Gibeon, Don't worry about hijacking. It's all good. Here's where my perspective may help. During the beginning of my A, I had told my W that I didn't know if I loved her anymore and found myself drifting away. However, it wasn't until she "cut herself off" from me and started doing things for herself and didn't care what I did, that I started to question my feelings and realized I DID love her. Up until that point, I had my cake and was eating it to. I believe that's what your H is doing. Hope this helped.
