Hi Rottzilla,
Thanks for your response. I totally agree that being mean is not the way to go. I really want to work from a place of love. Having said that, is there not some way of being loving and positive while putting one's foot down? Like I said, on one level things are somewhat positive in my sitch compared to others. But, overall, he's moved further and further away. Does this just mean that I have to give things more time, or that I need to change my strategy? Since my H is essentially getting the best of both worlds right now, I am concerned that he doesn't really understand the ramifications of what he's doing. Plus, by seeing me all the time he doesn't have a chance to miss me. Make sense?
Gib